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Why Good Intentions Make a Bad Legal Standard
Why Law Reaches for Intent in the First Place Legal systems lean toward intent because it feels humane. Motive appears to reveal character, and character feels like a stable guide for judgment. In emotionally charged domains like parenting and custody, intent offers something comforting: the belief that outcomes can be understood, and even forgiven, by examining what someone meant to do. Courts frequently ask whether a parent acted out of love, fear, confusion, or malice, as though the answer to that question can reliably predict what the child will experience over time.
By Peter Thwing - Host of the FST Podcastabout 4 hours ago in Families
The Celestial Sea Voyages
The Laird of the household is an ebullient, eternally youthful and generous man. As a young boy he excelled in all sports -- and still does -- especially rugby. He grasps every chance to participate in anything sporty with a single-mindedness that leaves everyone else literally ‘holding the baby’. He is of solid build and medium height; a true Celt with his auburn hair and trim beard, often to be found wearing eccentric, tartan trews and funny hats with an extremely obedient spaniel by his side. He is a much-loved character and tends to take centre stage, needing high accolade from the immediate community for his sense of identity and self-esteem. He possesses a remarkable energy, matched only by a surprising ability to switch off completely. I often tease him about his lack of ‘middle mode.’ I sometimes wonder if this extreme pace indicates a reluctance to face deeper issues. His ability to endlessly talk and prove his point of view gives him a big advantage over his students but can come across as over-bearing and bull-headed amongst his peers, especially those of the female gender. This side of his character is gaining strength as he matures, to the point where even I find it difficult to put across any opinion. This developing trait is giving me some concern for the future. I hope a degree of humility and a softer edge might appear with a move to the other side of the world.
By Marina de Nadousabout 23 hours ago in Families
🌧️ The Old Man at the Bus Stop
Every morning at exactly 8:15, the old man arrived at the bus stop. Rain or shine, winter or summer—it didn’t matter. He wore the same faded brown coat, carried a small paper bag, and sat on the far end of the bench as if the rest of the world didn’t exist.
By Imran Ali Shah5 days ago in Families
Should You Leave Your Emotionally Unavailable Spouse?
This Reddit post gave me pause. First of all because the OP is a stay at home mom (Didn’t know those really existed anymore.) And also, because she laments that it is hard to be married to a slightly self-centered roommate rather than a husband or partner.
By Marie Dubuque9 days ago in Families
Beloved
Flowers cascade down the aisles of a quiet church, the pews filled with friends and loves ones. At the alter stand the largest of the arrangements, fragrant flowers wafting their perfume, through the chapel, certain to create and evoke scent memories in future recollections of this day. The parishioners file in and will soon file out, with whispers of, “It was a beautiful service,” “The flowers were so lovely,” and “I’m sorry for their loss. His passing was long in coming, but so sudden.”
By Alexandra Grant10 days ago in Families
A Mother’s Hands
Zara sat on the edge of her bed, holding her worn notebook tightly. The evening sunlight streamed through the curtains, casting golden lines across the room. She had been trying to finish her homework for the past hour, but her mind kept drifting, and her pen stayed still. “Mom?” she called softly. Her mother, Saira, appeared at the doorway with a gentle smile, holding a cup of tea. Her hair was tied in a loose bun, a few strands falling across her forehead. She placed the cup on the table beside Zara and crouched down to meet her daughter at eye level. “Homework again?” Saira asked softly, brushing a strand of hair behind Zara’s ear. Zara nodded, biting her lip. “It’s hard… I can’t think.” Saira put her hand over hers and squeezed gently. “I know it feels hard sometimes. But you don’t have to do everything at once. Step by step, my love.” Zara looked at her mother, at the kind, patient eyes that had always been her safe place. Memories flashed through her mind—Saira helping her with her first drawing, teaching her to ride a bicycle, staying awake through long nights when Zara was sick. Every scraped knee, every tear, every small triumph had been guided by her mother’s hands. “I just want to do well, Mom,” Zara whispered, her voice quivering slightly. “You will,” Saira said, smoothing Zara’s hair. “But remember, doing well doesn’t mean doing everything perfectly. Life isn’t a race. It’s about learning, growing, and loving along the way.” Zara smiled faintly, feeling a little lighter. She picked up her pen and began writing again, while Saira watched silently, letting her daughter find her own rhythm. Later that evening, they went to the kitchen together. Saira hummed softly while chopping vegetables, and Zara helped by washing the lettuce. Their conversation was ordinary, yet filled with unspoken warmth. “You know,” Saira said, glancing at her daughter, “I still remember the day you were born. I held you in my arms and promised you the world. Not just the easy parts—the beautiful, messy, hard parts too.” Zara looked up, wide-eyed. “You mean… you love me even when I make mistakes?” Saira laughed softly. “Always. That’s what mothers do. We carry both the mistakes and the successes. We hold you up even when you feel like you can’t stand on your own.” The day passed quietly. They shared a simple dinner, and after tidying up, Zara curled up on the couch while Saira read aloud from a book. Sometimes Saira paused to answer questions, other times she let the story flow, the words wrapping around them like a warm blanket. At night, when Zara was ready for bed, Saira tucked her in, smoothing the blanket around her. “Sleep well, my little star,” she whispered. “Remember, no matter where life takes you, my hands, my heart, will always be here for you.” Zara hugged her mother tightly, feeling the warmth, the safety, and the certainty of that love. “I love you, Mom,” she murmured. “I love you too, forever,” Saira said, kissing her forehead. Days turned into weeks, weeks into months, and Zara began to grow taller, stronger, and more confident. But no matter how old she got, she never stopped seeking her mother’s hands for guidance, comfort, and love. Every time she stumbled, Saira was there. Every time she succeeded, Saira quietly cheered, letting Zara shine in her own way. Years later, Zara found herself sitting by the same window in her childhood room, thinking about her mother. She could still hear Saira’s voice in the kitchen, smell the faint aroma of spices, and feel the warmth of those steady hands guiding her through life’s smallest and largest moments. Zara realized that the bond they shared was beyond words, beyond lessons, beyond moments. It was a quiet love, constant and unwavering—a love that built her, shaped her, and stayed with her no matter the distance or time. And with that realization, she smiled, picking up her notebook once again. She wrote a simple line, for herself and for her mother: “Your hands taught me how to stand, your love taught me how to fly.” And she knew, no matter what storms came her way, that love—the love between a mother and daughter—would always be her anchor.
By Salman khan12 days ago in Families
Do I Have To?
Tuesday was a “national” day of celebration, but not all were in celebratory mode. While our nation and other nations were partying and engorging themselves on corned beef, potatoes, cabbage and an over abundance of beer, one person was grieving and going down a rabbit hole of sadness, over the death of a parent.
By Alexandra Grant16 days ago in Families
The Missing Piece
The puzzle piece became a symbol of Autism in the sixties. It represented the puzzling nature of the disorder. Autism Speaks used it too, but they were criticized for pushing for a cure to Autism, rather than acceptance. I am using it today as a symbol for my family's dynamic, having an Autistic family member in residential care.
By Kathleen Anderson 16 days ago in Families
The Girl I Loved and Hated at the Same Time
The First Time I Met Her The first time I met Emma, I honestly didn’t like her at all, and if someone had told me that she would later become one of the most important people in my life, I probably would have laughed and walked away without believing a single word. It was during my first week at a new job in the city, when everything already felt overwhelming and unfamiliar, and the last thing I needed was someone who seemed confident, sarcastic, and slightly irritating in a way that made me feel like she could read every thought passing through my mind.
By The Curious Writer22 days ago in Families
