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Scoundrel's Rules
1. Never let morality stand in the way of a good time. There is no sin in pleasure if everyone is enjoying it, and nobody is hurt, so have a good time, enjoy your life, and forget about the taboos and scruples standing in your way. A day without sex is a day without sunshine...
By Samuel Wright4 years ago in Filthy
Relationships: Can Someone Fear Human Contact If They Had An Intrusive Caregiver?
Feeling alone and disconnected from others is something that many people suffer with. They may be yearning for human interaction at this time and want to spend time with another or a few people soon.
By Rahau Mihai4 years ago in Filthy
Wrap It Up
Today is National Sex Day. Our sex lives play a big role in not only our love life but our overall health by lowering blood pressure and improving the immune system. Unfortunately, every year 20 million people are diagnosed with a sexually transmitted disease or STD. This costs the healthcare system sixteen billion dollars. They have scientifically proven that wearing a condom makes you 10,000 times safer during sex by protecting you from STDS. They are the cheapest known form of birth control on the market today. Condoms also have many doomsday uses outside of “the dirty deed”.
By M.L. Lewis4 years ago in Filthy
Accepting and Forgiving Dishonesty is the Highest Form of Trust in a Relationship
I don't often write about relationships or give relationship advice. This is mostly because I do not like to read such articles. All too often I find them boring, cliché ridden regurgitations of relationship truisms, revealed as if for the first time ever as holy wisdom obtained from the hand of God himself. They are typically penned in a sanctimonious tone by an author who knows for certain that their relationship and life are far superior to your own. Therefore, I approached this particular story with more than a little trepidation. On top of my disdain for the genre comes the controversial assertion made in the title, about which I can hear reader's howls of disapproval in my head even as I type these words. "You are telling me if I catch my partner lying to me I should just accept it? So, you are saying is is OK for my partner to lie to me?" are but two of the questions that would certainly be hurled my way if hurling questions over the internet were possible, and if anyone actually read anything I write. Fortunately or unfortunately neither of those things is the case, but I will still answer the questions, and yes, that is exactly what I am telling you, and for once I am telling you the answer in non run on sentence format. Of course there are some important preconditions, and possibly one or two run on sentences which describe them. What can I say, I'm a sucker for a good run on. Nothing says, I have a lot to say, and I want it to be very precise, with minimum chance for misinterpretation like a good, long, run on sentence.
By Everyday Junglist4 years ago in Filthy
Adding To Your Communication Toolbox
Balance in any relationship is key to a healthy thriving dynamic. What that dynamic is ultimately is up to the people involved however, being in a kink relationship takes a bit more work. There are expectations outside of the normal day-to-day that must be faced, and those expectations can be well within the physical or sexual realm. It is often hard to maintain a dynamic when you must face things like work, family responsibilities, paying bills, or even grocery shopping. All the mundane things that take away from the fun.
By L.S. Diamond4 years ago in Filthy
Erotic Short Stories Tutorial
Erotic Short Stories or Written Porn? Think about your project. Are you writing erotic short stories or are you writing written porn? Think of it this way… erotica or erotica short stories are written porn with style and more of a storyline. The cheesy dialogue and absurd scenarios that you see in porn, the people who write them- assuming someone bothers to write it- are not erotica writers. Porn has no need for real stories or interesting characters; it’s just there to give you direct visuals.
By Timothy A Rowland4 years ago in Filthy
21 Things You Can Do If You Are Caught Cheating On Your Partner
No one wants to think they might be cheating on their partner, but the reality is, people do it all the time. If you’re caught in the act, your first instinct may be to deny, deny, deny. But this isn’t always the best course of action. Here are a few things you should do if you get caught cheating:
By Alain Saamego4 years ago in Filthy
5 Reasons to Write Erotica
Everyone has fantasies or a favorite sexual encounter that gets your heart racing just thinking about it. Why not write about them? Whenever I mention that I write erotic, I get eye rolls. Apparently, that's not "real" writing. There's a reason 50 Shades of Grey is so insanely popular. People love to read it, even if they won't admit it.
By Krysta Dawn4 years ago in Filthy
