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Abusers Love to Play the Victim. Have You Been Fooled?
You may have a close friend or family member who is a serial abuser and not know it. It’s extremely common for abusers engaging in physical and/or psychological abuse to mask their activities by playing the victim. Would you be able to see through an abuser’s lies when they tell you their false version of events? How can you detect when someone is telling the truth about an abusive ex partner?
By E6 years ago in Humans
I Don't Believe in Introverts and Extroverts
The definition of an introverted person is someone that is interested in their own affairs. They are generally shy people that don't want to interact with others. In contrast to an introvert, we have an extroverted person who is confident in socializing with strangers.
By Brian Anonymous6 years ago in Humans
Mommy Syndrome
I remember when I was younger I never understood why women would stay in toxic relationships. I didn't get the whole "I love him even though he makes my life a living hell" declaration. I didn't think in a million years that I would ever be in that situation. That is until one day, after meeting the so called one, I realized I too was that woman.
By Y7 years ago in Humans
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
I had lunch with a good friend of mine recently. She sits down and says “I just dropped a bomb in my life.” She goes on to explain that she just told her husband of 20+ years that she is not “in love with him any longer.” In fact, she really doesn’t know if she was ever really in love with him. It had been coming for a long time. She had swallowed the anxiety and sadness for so long it just came bubbling up recently. Right before her youngest son’s birthday party she started bawling. It was her body/mind telling her it was time to go.
By Missy Is Me7 years ago in Humans
Love vs Lust
When in a relationship you never know what will happen. Sometimes, we think that lust is the meaning of a relationship, and that it will define everything. Love focuses on meeting the genuine needs of others, even at the cost of self-sacrifice. Love is making a choice every single day: to either love or not love. Sometimes it's easy to love. Sometimes it's extremely difficult. But at the end of the day, it's always a choice. Love deeply desires the soul and gladly receives whatever body accompanies it.
By Grenadian Queen7 years ago in Humans
Let Go
"In the process of letting go, you will lose many things from the past, but you will find yourself. "- Deepak Chopra My thirties have been one of the best experiences that I've witnessed thus far. Maturity, mixed with sessions with my therapist, has opened my eyes to be the very best version of myself. I'm continually analyzing the people around me and always asking myself if people in my life are a lesson or a blessing. Still, studying your growth and maturity can be a beneficial gift if you are willing to pay attention. One thing everyone must have in their lives is a support system. A two-way relationship that provides a safe space to be challenged and loved in the same breath. A relationship that celebrates the wins, embraces the loses, and challenges your commitment. If you don't have that support system in your corner, you will be fighting the fight by yourself, and it will drain you. You choose your support system based on your values and character traits.
By teisha leshea7 years ago in Humans
Even More About Fake Sugar Daddies
This may be a series on my page about just the bullshit these guys will say and how they will try to fool you. I have done three posts about fake daddies already but they keep coming up with new things to try to fool women.
By Lena Bailey7 years ago in Humans
Salt Daddies and Fakes
In the world of sugar, there are several names or terms for fake daddies or wannabes. I'm here to clear up any confusion or questions. I will be using the term Splenda or salt a lot but some of this can be true for scammers too. A lot of girls prefer online and some of this can be used for that so take this advice and apply it to what you want. Let's dive in—we have a lot to cover.
By Lena Bailey7 years ago in Humans
Fake or Bad Sugar Daddies
So as I go through my journey as a sugar baby and as a friend to some babies, I will always learn more so I may write several posts about one topic. I wrote one post already to give you the basics about salt or fake daddies (Filthy: "Salt Daddies and Fakes").
By Lena Bailey7 years ago in Humans
Taming the Bully Within
From birth to the end of our life journey we are bombarded with limitations. We are told how to behave, what to believe, how to live, who to live with and how to treat them. Conditions, conditions, conditions.
By Nancy Stjepanovic7 years ago in Humans
Conflict Management Style
Individual Conflict Styles and Their Effect on Marriages This article is written based on a section of the workshop both my wife and I teach as volunteers. The workshop is called Journey to Intimacy, and is created by a US-based clinical psychologist Dr Wei-Jen Hwang.
By Jason Sim7 years ago in Humans
5 Simple Things You Should Be Doing if You Love to Be Loved
When someone truly loves you, they love you unconditionally and without restrictions. Their love is not dependent on how you look, how much money you make, or what you do for them. They love you simply for who you are on the inside, naked and bare.
By Erika Potap7 years ago in Humans