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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

Romantically Financed
Attraction and preferences foster relationships to make easier transitions for individuals toward romance. Two people came together with their own individuality. Their affinity for each other creates positive energy to establish a relationship. They bring unique personalities to the union. The component that is overlooked within a relationship is FINANCES!
By Jefferson Jones8 years ago in Humans
Ten Things You Should Never Do After a Break-up
Break-ups are painful, whether you were the one to break things off, or the one who was left. You go through different phases of stress, withdrawal from your regular daily activities and the people in your life, and you probably cry a lot; that's OK. It is a moment for emotions and life changes to run high, and a time for you to ask yourself all the questions: what went wrong? Did I do something? Were we really not meant to be?
By Delilah Jayde8 years ago in Humans
To His next Girl
To His next Girl, I know you probably hate me and we haven't even met, I get it, it's normal. I'm sure I will be a little resentful when I first find out about you too. I don't want you to be intimidated by our pictures together as they are only memories of the past. You will never have to worry about me texting, calling or being around, but there are a few things I want you to know since you are his person now.
By Sam Villemaire8 years ago in Humans
Don't Revive That Friendship
So some of us have been there, while plenty of others haven't. It's fine, some times its okay to leave some things left unsaid, to leave some friendships in the past. But when it comes from a beautiful friendship to a toxic relationship should we be letting them back into our lives? When you felt like you would drag heaven and hell for them and they just turn around and hurt you, should you allow them back? I'm going to tell you a story about when that happened to me and I'll let you decide if it was deemed worthy enough to try to stay friends.
By Kaliegh Rose8 years ago in Humans
Confidence and Fake Friends: How Do They Connect?
There is always that one person you know that is really cocky, but they defend their cockiness by saying they are just confident in themselves. First of all, there is a big difference in being confident and being a jerk; those are two different things. I have always been told my whole life confidence in yourself is key, which is true. Everyone needs to have confidence. But there is a line that when crossed turns that person into a really really big pain in the but. Every person can admit that in their high school there was always that one person whom everyone despised. Those people usually act the same, they feel they are entitled and turn their nose up at other people, and they think they are better than everyone else. As I mentioned before there is nothing wrong with being confident.
By Anaya Chambers8 years ago in Humans
Lost
Sometimes in life, we see what we want and we have all the right intentions to get there. Sometimes in life the right intentions put you in a completely different place than you expected.
By Rose Laniakea8 years ago in Humans
Dealing With a Man’s Increasing Silence in a Relationship
You might have been there. The fire has died out, you and your bae no longer have endless things to talk about, and silence went from a complete stranger to a permanent resident in your time together. You notice his increasing tendency to resort to silence and it kind of saddens you.
By Judy Mae8 years ago in Humans
Best Polyamorous Relationship Tips to Make It Work
Polyamory is not easy. If you think having a single boyfriend or girlfriend is hard, imagine how difficult it is to juggle two at the same time. Speaking as someone who was in a polyamorous relationship with five different people, I'll be the first to say it's not for everyone.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart8 years ago in Humans
What Love Is like After an Emotionally Abusive Relationship
Emotional abuse is never something you think that you'll be a victim of. You think that you will "know the signs" and "never will deal with that" until you are in a romantic relationship with someone who is. You don't take those red flags as bad; he's just "caring" and "protective of his own." He's not. It's abuse that affects you mentally and physically. Unfortunately, this is extremely common, and when you are in it, you don't realize what is going on.
By Madison Zygadlo8 years ago in Humans
Are You Abusing Him?
Alright, ladies, it’s time to be perfectly honest…. We aren’t exactly perceived the same way as our male s/o’s in relationships and we know that. After all, we tend to be able to get away with a heck of a lot more than them in some instances. And sometimes those things we can get away with is a lot worse than you think. If you read the title of my article, which you must have if you clicked on it, you know exactly what I’m talking about.
By Lulu Rose8 years ago in Humans
What Moving in With My Boyfriend at 19 Has Taught Me
There’s a lot of stigma that goes around when it comes to relationships these days, about how they should progress, when to appropriately call your relationship “serious,” and when to make big decisions with the person you love. But that’s all a bunch of BS. Here are some of the things I’ve learned since I moved in with my boyfriend at 19-years-old.
By Grace Grenier8 years ago in Humans
How to Be an Introvert
I've been an extrovert for a long time. A really long time. In a world where whispers are yells and opinions are loudly-held, it's hard to think without feeling intruded upon by other people's talk, and impossible to speak quietly and still be heard—so I've adjusted by speaking every single thought that I have and doing it all quite loudly. Naturally, so has everyone else, which leaves us all with a cacophony of mindless words being repeated over and over and over till our eardrums are desensitized and our neurons no longer know of any other path to take.
By Amera Hassan8 years ago in Humans