breakups
When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.
Surviving Heartbreak
To be honest, I think this is like the first time I've written a blog post and actually not thought about being 'positive' and trying to make people 'see the light at the end of the tunnel'. I'm just being real and RAW. Heartbreak and the heartache that comes with it is actually unmatchable LOL. I don't know of any pain it is comparable to. It's not the worst pain, but it's a unique kind of pain on its own. The worst is when it wasn't even because of a relationship, but a situationship, and I'm not the first person that's expressed this so I know this much is true. When I feel like this, I don't think there's anything anyone can say to make me feel better (except God). My friends (bless them) have the best things to say, and are always trying to uplift me, but needless to say it's as useful to me as a band aid in this situation. It almost feels like the world is ending. And I think that's because this person, in a way, was your world. People like me who are intense beings feel two ways when ending with someone, absolutely nothing or absolutely everything. This is what makes it worse. I've spoken to people and it's come to an end, and it's been a relatively easy 'goodbye'. Yes I'd still think about them occasionally, but the memories would pop up and I'd literally feel nothing. But when I really like the person. Wow. Fam, I'm sure I'm close to death because what kind of pain is that? Why does it have to feel like this?!?!?! How many working days 'til I feel normal again?!????!
By Eyram Kiakia7 years ago in Humans
My Ex. My Cousin. His Wife.
I committed a crime in early 2010 that would gift me a two year sentence in the Florida Department of Corrections. As new meat on the block, I was being pursued by many of the women that were trying to pass their time by having a little fun, and being 'gay for the stay,' a prison termed used for woman that have no interest in the same sex outside of the prison gates.
By Tanaine Jenkins7 years ago in Humans
3 Things That Could End a Relationship
There are things that can surely end a relationship rather quickly, no matter how great the relationship seems to be. Very rarely does a relationship survive these pitfalls. In most cases, though, the relationship simply ends.
By John Vadernport7 years ago in Humans
Life Adventures
I’ll start by being straight up with you. You’re going to get your heart broken more than once as you move though life. Hell, it’ll probably happen as many as 10 times or MORE before you finally find the one person who does nothing but make you happy. I haven’t been on this Earth for very long in the grand scheme of things, and I feel sometimes like I’ve experienced enough heartbreak to last me the rest of my life. One thing that has kept me through it is one word. "Temporary." As in, having your heart broken is only one little part of your life that goes into the bigger picture of the person you are supposed to be. Everything leading up to that point is only temporary.
By Lex Thompson7 years ago in Humans
Honor Your Ex
Yes, I said it. Honor your ex. The person that broke your heart into a million pieces. The person that fought with you, ignored you, and dishonored you. Yes, and I still want you to honor them. Because that experience with them was priceless, once you shift your perspective.
By Grace Calo7 years ago in Humans
One Take
Letting Go I’m writing this on the fly, it’s clear tonight, and I can see the stars. They’re fascinating, I can’t even begin to imagine how many are out there. I’m getting off topic, I know, but that’s what you get for having a sudden urge to write whilst being out on a walk.
By Adam Hayton7 years ago in Humans
1/1/18
The last night of the year felt like the beginning of forever. Last night was a night that I needed, surrounding myself with amazing people, Laughter from every inch of the house. I was with my best friend, when I looked over, and saw the man I wanted to hold onto. I couldn’t have asked for a better crowd to end the year with. This is going to be my year. I don’t want to hold back from what I want.
By macy darcie7 years ago in Humans
